More to Life

How do you come to grips with the fact that you've spent the last two years of your life wasting your time? How do you reconcile your work for a good cause with the reality that it's taking over your life? What do you do once you've sunk yourself so deep into committments that whenever you're not tending to them you're only living on borrowed time? How do you begin to unravel the knots? How do you bail out on something for the sake of your sanity without becoming "the flakey one"? And once you're done and everything that has taken up your time has suddenly disappeared, what do you do to fill in the void?